Tree big factors in Marriage or Relationship Crises Last week I commented on how the area of mismatched sexual desire is one of the big three factors common in marriage or relationship crises (the other two were finances and parenting). This week I’m introducing Michele Weiner-Davis, director of The Divorce Busting Center and author […]
Couples in Crisis: Sex, Finances and Parenting
When couples are in crisis it is often centred around a combination of three issues: sex, finances, and parenting. The area that has arguably not enjoyed as much quality research as the others is sex. The differences in sexual desire, or mismatched sexual desire, frequently cause tension and friction in relationships. […]
Let’s Build our Teenage Girls, not Trash Them
What messages do we send to our teenagers in their challenging years? And why do we send such negative messages to teenage girls, and positive messages to teenage boys? Katherine Young, a 31-year-old graphic designer, was shocked when she first saw two magazine covers next to each other. “The worst […]
Do you have this in common with Bear Grylls?
I recently read an article on Bear Grylls – that intrepid adventurer we see from time to time on TV doing crazy stuff in the wilderness, and this really resonated with me. The article relates how he met his future wife: “Grylls was attempting a “training hike” for Everest, and with […]
Depression and the Nagging Self-Doubt in Your Head
When it comes to your thought life, depression has a way of setting the automatic default to ‘negative’. You can pick whether this is the case by asking yourself when you last complimented yourself? Or when last did you put yourself down for who you are or something you did? […]
Benefits of Taking Time Before Responding
Feelings can be powerful and sometimes cause us to react or behave in ways that we don’t think we have any control over. However, we always have a choice about how we respond to situations, and no one can take that choice away from us. The secret is to give […]
Scars and Healing
I’ve had an opportunity to spend some time recently pondering wounds and scars. I found myself firstly thinking about Jesus and the scars he wore after his resurrection. Why did He feel the need to keep his scars after all he had suffered the pain of death and paid the […]